If you’re a little bored during this pandemic it just might be the perfect time for you to reach out and touch someone with a little love. Send that love in the form of a hand written letter.
Who doesn’t like to find a personal message ‘just to them’ in their mailbox, a message that says someone is thinking of them? Don’t type the letter. Pick up a pen and take your time crafting each word. Your handwriting is a little bit of you. Type is so impersonal. In intimate correspondence the hand written letter will always reign supreme.
You can dress up your letter with pictures. One picture is worth a thousand words. A picture to make your friend smile, a picture to make your friend think of something pleasing. Words and pictures together have delighted human beings for centuries. Why not now?
True, it slows one down to write, especially to hand write, but we need to slow ourselves down sometimes. Streamlining our activities in life may help us get more accomplished, but it’s quality we should be after, not quantity.
“Writing by hand, mouthing by mouth: in each case you get a very strong physical sense of the emergence of language … print obliterates it, type has no drawl”, says American novelist William Gass, and I agree.
If you must type because you have some physical problem, well ok, but most of us should do the human thing whenever possible, not the machine thing. Too many tasks these days are designated away from personal human touch.
Perhaps you’re writing to your friend while enjoying a cup of coffee. Tell them about it. Draw the cup. Take time. Describe where you’re sitting. Imagine your friend is with you and write stream of consciousness style just as though they were with you in person. Dot dot dot, dash, dash, dash. Sure, you could phone them, but maybe they’re busy and don’t care to be interrupted. A letter is always so very polite. It patiently waits to be read. It makes no demands, only offers delight
Turn your letter into a little book. It’s easily done by inserting a few sheets of paper.
Poke holes into the papers and use colored twine or ribbon to tie the pages together. Use your creativity. Turn on your imagaination and GO! Be an artist.
The act of writing is a wonderful discipline. Our minds are forced to send messages to our fingers and our fingers must respond with precision. We can’t be in a rush. We must discipline ourselves to write slowly and carefully so our writing is not only legible, but also handsome. Most of us care how we look. We should also care how our writing looks and if we’re not pleased we should practice. Practice makes improvement!
Writing is like yoga. It forces our bodies to obey our minds. It encourages us toward harmony. A letter should be a work of art that not only touches the heart of our friend, but hopfully also entertains them, and in this pandemic who couldn’t use a little extra entertainment.
Machines have no grace. Hopefully we humans do, and our handwritten, artful letters can sprinkle a little of that grace out into our weary world as we reach out to others in this most personal way.
Speak with your pen! Send the gift of a letter to someone letting them know you are thinking of them. If it’s a heart to heart letter it just might make their day and wouldn’t you feel good about yourself if you could make another so happy. Sure you would.
“More than kisses, letters mingle souls; For, thus friends absent speak.” _____John Donne
4 thoughts on “Why not write a letter?”
Carol, I love the John Donne quote! In fact, it inspired me to write two friends in nursing homes tonight. I write them notes anyway, but I made sure I got them written tonight. Mo
Mo, You’re a very good girl. I’m sure your letters will make your friends very happy. You made me happy too by reading my post. Thanks.
I enjoyed reading this blog of yours about the many good things about letter-writing. As you know, you’re “preaching to the choir” with regards to the importance and value of letter-writing. But as you also know, I place emphasis on quality versus quantity in all aspects of my life, so my correspondence with you is really my only one, on a personal level. And great letters your letters are.
After spending five enjoyable days with me, Holly and baby Melanie traveled back to Holly’s mother’s home yesterday, so I had a chance to reply to your most recent letter and I placed it in today’s outgoing mail, so you should receive it this Thursday or Friday, I would think.
Through this blog, I’m glad to hear that you’re sounding well and cheerful.
Greg, It’s always nice to hear from you. I’ll be eager to get all the details of your visit with Holly and Melanie.